Now, that I look back on everything, there are subtle hints I did not notice. I guess it was because I was absorbed in all that was going on around me, and I was not trying to analyze everything. After Mom’s surgery, she wanted to stay in her pajamas all day. This should have sent up a red flag, but it did not. Mom knew she was not going to get out of the house, but I did not see that. The last night she was alive, she chose to get a catheter. Another red flag should have gone up in my mind. Was she planning on not getting out of bed? I don’t know, maybe I would have done things differently had I figured that out at the time.
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