I sent Dad an email and
told him to keep a low key and let things fly off the cuff. I knew the next two weeks before the wedding
would be stressful for Claudia. I also
talked with him on the phone the week before the wedding and told him to be the
calm in the storm. He assured me he was
being the calm in the storm.
A few days before the
wedding, I was sitting on the front porch thinking about Mom. I stood up and rang the chimes because the chimes
remind me of her. As soon as I rang the
chimes, I looked up and saw a deer standing in the cul-de-sac. The deer heard me ring the chimes and stared
at me. I told Lauren later and she said,
“That’s like Granny because a deer is gentle, calm, and sweet.” Leave it to a twelve year old to explain the
truths in God’s nature.
Lauren and Ashton were
excited about the wedding. One day,
Ashton went around the house saying, “We’re going to Granddaddy’s wedding. We’re going to Granddaddy’s wedding.” I was excited about the wedding also and
about Dad and Claudia getting married. I
did not know what my thoughts would be the day of the wedding. I did not want to forget about Mom. Could I focus on the wedding and not be in
sorrow about her?
Thursday night, we
arrived at Dad’s house around eleven at night.
Claudia wanted me to be there when I got to Dad’s house, so she could
see my facial expressions when I saw the house for the first time. I was the last of the girls to see the
house.
I soaked each room in one at a time. It did not even look like the same house. Everything was crisp and new. Of course Claudia had everything decked to a tee. The house looked fantastic.
I soaked each room in one at a time. It did not even look like the same house. Everything was crisp and new. Of course Claudia had everything decked to a tee. The house looked fantastic.
That night we gave them
one of their wedding gifts. I brought
two kinds of Dad’s favorite cookies from my shop, and I brought Claudia’s favorite too. I put the cookies in a cute
white tin with a plastic lid, so they could take it on their honeymoon. We also gave her a golden metal basket to put
her keys in, so she would not lose them.
I made them a wedding
themed bouquet of cookies. I decorated a
cookie that looks like a groom in his tux, a bride in her gown, a wedding cake,
a wedding bell, one with “J” for Jim on it and another bell with “C” for
Claudia. I wanted to give the groom grey
hair since Dad has grey hair but decided to be nice. It was precious.
Evelyn had a doll in her
garage sell that turns in circles and plays, “Here comes the bride.” We gave it to them as a joke. The four girls also gave them a gift card to
Home Depot, so they could get a new grill.
The grill is desperately needed.
The last time I used Dad’s grill, it had major problems.
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