When I got home, I
showed Paul and my sisters. She did a great job, and it was a million times better than mine. I was very thankful for what Dorothy did for
me.
Before Lauren and Ashton
went to bed, I asked them what they thought about the day. Lauren said, “Busy…..tired.” Ashton said, “Fun….romantic.” We started talking about what they were going
to call Claudia because she was their grandmother now. They called her Miss Claudia before. Ashton said, “Let’s ring her up and see what
she wants to be called.”
On the way back home to
Athens, we stopped at Mom’s gravesite.
Paul helped me place the shepherd’s staff in the ground because the
ground was very hard. He had to find a
large cement block to hit the staff into the ground.
I put the chimes on the
staff and thought about the sounds the chimes would make as the breeze would
blow after I was gone. I said happy
birthday to her. Before I left, I heard
the chimes twice and enjoyed hearing the sounds they made.
I talked to Aunt Julie
on the phone a little over a week after the wedding. She was telling me how much fun she had, and
we talked for a while. As I was talking
to her, everything seemed so surreal. It
is hard to believe they are actually married now and living in the same
house. I guess it just finally hit
me.
I called Nana on the
phone because she had been sick lately.
I had not spoken to her since the wedding. We talked about the wedding, Dad, and
Claudia. She told me she did not want me
mad at her because she did not go to the wedding. I told her I wasn’t. She then said, “I would have broken
down.” I told her it was just going to
take time.
Paul told me Dad
emailed me some pictures. I asked him
if he would print them out for me. The
pictures were from their honeymoon.
There were a few pictures of them on the cruise, and a few when they
were in Mexico. He also sent me a
picture of him carrying Claudia over the threshold at their house. I scanned my eyes over to a picture I have in
my den. It is a picture of Dad carrying
Mom over the threshold of their house after they got married. It was one of the many pictures Mom gave me
when she divided up the pictures. Tears
again started to fill my eyes. It was
another one of those hard moments…there will be many more.
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