Oh, the Little Details

I took Grandmother’s charm bracelet and put on the charms—Mom engraved her charm with my birthdate. I will pass down the bracelet to Lauren because it represents her grandmother and great-grandmother. I couldn’t wait to wear it.

     I wanted to make sure my cousins did not mind, so I sent a message to one telling her I was going to keep it and that I hoped no one would care. No, I did not have to do this even though their charms were on the bracelet. One may think I shouldn’t have said anything, but I wanted a clear conscience. I did what was right. They did not mind.

     Dad gave me two neat pennants the preachers brought as they visited Grandmother. I like the one made with two nails shaped like a cross.

 

 UHave you considered how you will act regarding your loved one’s belongings? (Should little items be put in a will?)U

 UIf there are items you want certain people to have, can you do it in private because other family members may wish to have their possessions, too?U

UMany relatives from out of town will gather for a funeral. Have you considered communicating your plans to others so everyone can see each other? A simple gathering such as a last-minute meal with a few relatives may mean a lot to someone.U