I was disappointed
because I want to stay at Dad’s just like I’m sure everyone else wants. Claudia’s mom can’t get up and down the
stairs to the condo, so she needs to stay at Dad’s. It would not be fair for Dad’s girls to stay
at their house and not Kelli and Adam.
There are so many people and things to take into consideration. We have to honor their decision.
I sit and think about
what Mom would say if she were here.
But, that is the whole issue, it is because she is not here; there has
to be change and things have to be done differently. Everyone has to take one for the team,
sacrificing in some way. At first, it
may seem to be an issue, just as it was an issue when I found out Dad was
dating one person. Feelings are hurt,
you learn to deal with it, adapt and adjust, and everything is fine.
There will be other
issues that come up I know. Change is
inevitable. One week from today will be
Dad and Claudia’s first anniversary. Time
has flown by. New traditions will be
started I’m sure, and the old one’s may be hard to let go of. Whoever thought the death of one family
member would create so much change in the lives of their loved ones.
The situation resolved
itself. Dad called me this past weekend
to tell me one of Claudia’s relatives is not coming down for Christmas. It will be crowded, but everyone can stay at
Dad’s house this year.
U Are you being selfish about having
things the way they have ALWAYS been or are you taking into consideration the
needs of both families? U
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